my friend is convinced her hubby is cyber cheating on her, and instead of doing as i said to, which was to get proper evidence and talk to him, she thinks hes using his bebo account to contact these women, and wants to see for herself?
im asking this under duress as she knows my feelings on it, but shes worked herself into such a state that im doing this.
none of his male friends have bebo accounts,and im on facebook so we cant ask to be his friend. any ideas?
Is it possible for a bebo account to be hacked into?
Well, since you've tried to talk some sense into her and she won't listen, basically the only thing she can do is sign up for bebo herself and try to add him. If he's smart he won't use his real name so she probably won't be able to find him, but she may get lucky.
Personally, I think, and I know by what you said you'll agree, she's setting herself up for a world of hurt by not simply confronting him with her fears and asking to see his bebo account (they ARE married, so I think that's not an unreasonable request).
I know how it feels to suspect someone, confront them and have them turn it around and make me feel like I'm the one that's crazy. If her instincts are telling her he's cheating (and she's not overly paranoid) then she should listen to them.
I wish her luck and I hope you can get her to listen to you..your idea is much better.
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